People at my school call me a flirt? good/bad? what do guys find attractive in a girl?

someone at school told me that a bunch of guys were talking about me saying im a huge flirt!.


i mean i don't understand.


people tell me its a bad thing.


i am far from a whore.


i don't really do anything unless i really like the guy.


im just confused.


why is being a flirt such a bad thing?


im just having fun?





im just confused!


people calll me the flirt?!


guys are the ones who flirt with me!


i mean guys never date me!


they just flirt with me.


i don't know if there scared or intimated by me.


or they're just leading me on.


how do i get a guy to just not to be a flirt buddy but get them to actually like me!?





helpp?People at my school call me a flirt? good/bad? what do guys find attractive in a girl?
nothing wrong in flirting but its how you come across, your flirting could be so full on they think you easy and don't mind flirting but don't wanna date, also you could be the kind of flirt who doesn't come accross well to women and the guys women friends have a lot of power. flirting is good if you are witty and subtle try it good luck.People at my school call me a flirt? good/bad? what do guys find attractive in a girl?
I'm a flirt too. Guys tell me all the time but they just flirt too. I say ';Then whats your excuse for flirting?'; They just blush and leave. Being a flirt is not a bad thing. Actually its a good thing. Like you I flirt and don't notice. Its part of being single.





To get a guy to like you? Well:


Get him to notice you.


Talk to him.


Flirt but in a more gf way.


Be a vice-girlfriend.


Talk to him about more serious things.


Don't show interest in other guys.
I am just like you sweetheart!!! Seriously, everyone tells me I'm such a huge flirt, but I'm just friendly =) And like you I enjoy having fun. It's harmless cause I don't do ANYTHING with the guys. Just tease them and joke around and ';flirt'; =) Hehe, don't worry about what anyone says. I don't think it's a bad thing. We have really nice social skills =)


As far as getting a boy to actually like you.. Just keep on trucking. You can't change yourself or do anything to get someone to like you like you. Just be yourself and someone will come along =)