Well i just recently posted a question about signs of a guy liking me..... But can i get any tips to flirt...Because every time a guy has liked me i had ruined it because i didn't really know what to do and how to give them the message that i liked them back too. HELP!!!!How Do I Flirt With Guys?
im a guy, a senior in highschool. try to be yourself as much as possible, and do not be up in the guy's face all the time. but smile at him as you pass him. and don't totally ignore him. when girls ignore me, i assume they don't like me!How Do I Flirt With Guys?
Best way IMO is to make eye contact with the guy you are attracted to and keep the eye contact and smile at him alot, and try to talk to him whenever you have a chance, guys like that, and you can also flirt by giving signs of attraction on your part such as asking alot of questions, and just keep looking at him and stuff
If you really like him, the flirting should come naturally. To get you started here are some tips. Touch him as much as you can like a simple push on the shoulder or you could ask to touch his hair specially if its curly.The second hint is to look at him allot.Try to give him the ';I like you look.'; The third hint is to try to be around him as much as you can. If your going to the movies with your friends ask him if he'd want to come and stick with him allot don't let him wonder to other girls. I hop these hints helped. :)
k this is from a guys standpoint. well, first off, you need to keep him guessing. one thing i love is when a girl randomly changes the conversation into somthing light hearted. like me and this girl were talking about realtionships and then she somehow made me argue over the best poptart flavor! and things like that make me laugh and like ehr more. be really sweet but whe the time calls, turn up the heat. dont be slutty, just make remarks that could lead him on. KEY THING: I HATE it when a girl doesnt pick up on the clue. like if I say a remark that shows im intersted and she blows it off, I hate that and its a real turn off and i just loose interst. So the key things are keeping interst, being simple sweet and most of all SMART!- you can probly get specific lines to say form your friends, just keep these things in mind when ur in the coversation aand you should be fine- o and personally, i love the smilie faces: it reinforces the sweetness
haha this is a question my friends ask me all the time.
One thing to do is just be yourself! Don't force yourself to be someone you don't know how to be. Then you won't act so akward and won't get into sticky situations. And also if that guy doesn't like the real you then just DITCH HIM! Not worth having it.
This is just one way if you have the guts to do this(my friend did this and we all cracked up) is to lean down on his table (if he's in front of one) and twirl your hair (oh have a cami those always work) and ask him a really dumb question like ';I don't know how to do my homework. can you help?'; lol.
Also crack a lot of jokes. Guys love it when you have a sense of humor!
Well for my personal opinion i would have to say:
1: Just be straight forward and say you like him but sincerely so he believes it.
2: I know this is a little opposite but sometimes (like in my case) the guy doesn't have the courage to ask the girl out and you just might have to ask him.
3: If lets say you have a friend that is friends with him just tell them to tell him a ';rumor'; that you like him and if he does really like you he will ask you.
seriously, be yourself. if he doesn't like you for who you are then you definitely do not want to be with him. also, i have noticed that the men i am not attracted to and act myself around and am not always thinking ';what should i do next'; ';what if i do this and he doesn't like me anymore?'; they end up liking me. but the men that i do find attractive and also over think things, get messed up. so seriously act yourself and just go with the flow. you got it girl
we, ive gotten a lot of girls mad at me because ';i flirt with ALL the guys'; which may be true, i don't know. All im doing is playing around with my friends( most of my friends are guys). When i do happen to be trying to flirt with a guy, i either taunt/tease him (ike making fun of him, but make sure to laugh a lot so you don't hurt his feelings, and if you think you went to far and you might have hurt him, te him your sorry or say just kidding) or, take something (that's not precious , or expensive to him) like ,, idk a hat ,if hes not to attached to it, and make him chase you around for it,, that's what i do,, although it can backfire, it doesn't usually,, you just have to know the guy :)
if he likes you then it seems you like him back....
it seems like you're nervous when you seem him apporach just take a breath and try to think of something to open a conversation.
try to talk about a topic you both like...or create(develop) and inside joke...
you'll notice just taking to him is better than flirting.. that or it becomes flirting..
if it become silent and awkard then just point something out like... ';did you just see what that girl over there did?'; or ';so today in class...'; etc.
anyway remember that some dudes aren't the type of people that have to have chatting in every moment of silence..
How do you NOT flirt with cute guys? Its all instinct. Once you see a attractive guy, you automatically start to flirt. Sometimes is following them, making loud conversation just so they get your attention, or its staring and smiling at them. There are lots of ways. You just have to show it. I dont really like guys who try to get my attention by flirting. I like them to be real and if they like me then actually ask me out.
Just be up and real and ask the boy. Dont worry about trying to flirt. Good luck! :)
Okay,as a guy.I honestly like for girls to tell me straight up
just like I do.
So,anyway.Here is my advice.
If you talk to him a lot and walk around him a lot.
Try some of this.
1. Bump into him
2.Try to touch his hand when you guys walk together(if so)
NOTE: Make sure you do it as if was an accident.(:
3.Don't laugh so hard at his jokes if they are bad just giggle.
4.Be yourself.
5.Like,someone said earlier.DON'T GROSS please. :/
6.Try to ignore other guys when your with him.
I don't know if this might help at all but hey
it's a long shot.And plus if you don't tell him you will have it stuck
in your head asking yourself.WHAT IF.?
I was just saying this tips because they always but I mean always
catch my attention.^.^
i'm like so glad u asked. here are somethings that could possibly help:
when he talks to u- blink slowly and smile at him
when he touches you- give him a playful shove in the chest or arm
when he watches you from a distense, eye him up and down(make sure he sees you doing this)
when he gives you a hug- stick you're hands in his pocket(to mess around and see whats in there)
when he its you- poke him in the stomach numerous times.
when he is like sitting next to you- hang on his shoulder and tell him he has strong sholders and give him a message.
if that doesn't work.... he's just slow lolz good luck :)
if your sitting by a guy on a couch or something, and he asks to see your phone or something you have. Go no! then smile, and if he tries to grab it, let him but dont know you let him, then you'll have to lean over him to grab it! haha. also, its best to sit by the guy you like alot, but do nottt make it obvious. also, do little things that'll make him remember you by. Things that other girls wouldnt do, just to make you stand out.! (:
The best ways to flirt would be to act like a girl. Twirling your hair can seem flirty. Smile and laugh a lot [[not dramatically so that they think your crazy lol]] Touch them on places like their arms and play with their hands and little things like that. No guarantees they will start liking you, but im pretty sure they will get the hint that you do.
ok im a guy, and u should start by going up to him and talking to him if he is like hey then he probably isn't interested if he is like good how r u than u r in and compliment him too and he will compliment u too also show some *** not full *** but a low cut shirt and underwear or thong showing should work and either have ur hair curly or flat not up. Also it doesn't hurt to wear tight short shorts or tight jeans not loose.
im trying to help
Give subtle hints.....look at him and smile and say Hi and MAKE EYE CONTACT. Bat your lashes or twirl your hand on your finger. When talking reach out and gently touch his arm like if he says something that you think is 'correct to' like ';This lunch sucks today.'; REach out and gently touch his arm and say i know right? And try complimenting him.....';mmmm i like your cologne'; or ';I love that shirt.'; Share your math notes with him give him your phone number incase you need to ';study'; or has a ';question';. Ask him for his say like ';I have this really cool text i want to send you, whats you number? Then text him a smiley face or a heart and your name. Give it time he will be drooling. Trust me cuz i got swagga! ;P
The easiest flirt is to smile at him. Cause staring and winking can be too obvious... You can also tease them and touch them 'accidentally'. If you two are really good with each other, you can say something suggestive like 'You know I like you' or 'OMG!! I love you!! Thank you!'
He'll get the message but won't be sure (depending on his confidence) Good luck : )
if you like a guy, flirting isnt something you want to do automatically..
you have to kind of let it happen over time..
lets say you drop your books and he helps you, stuff like that..
because some guys think that girls who flirt are cheap and just go around flirting with guys.
so be yourself and not a flirting ***** like everyone tells you to be.
well lets see if he says how are you say good you. i like your...... hair,shoes,shirt,hoodie whatever ummmmm or if he says want to take a walk say yeah awsome can we go somewhere where there is no body around or not alot of people around? then while your taking a walk ask like so do you like sports ask questions. or lets say he says your hair is cute you say your not bad your self there is some tips well hope it helps!!!!!.....
Okay. This is simple and painless. Message him. Ask him what he likes. See if it matches with what you like. If that fails, ask him if he likes one of the things you like. If you find something you both like, delve deeper into it. Talk more about it. Over a course of say... a week, month, maybe a year, you'll be trusting him. If he knows you trust him, he'll trust you. Don't just be like ';Hey sexy'; or send him pictures inappropriate of you. He'll most likely hate you. That's MY answer.
compliment what they are wearing, laugh when they think they are being funny, touch them everyonce in a while ex. shoulder, hand, arm. say jokes making fun of them but make sure they knowww you are kidding
say they smell good, with out being creepy. compliement their features. ex. you're really tan, you have pretty blue eyes. you hair is really soft. you muscles are nice.
Different things work for different people but i suggest not doing anything obvious. Just talk alot but dont become the friend that he wouldnt date because he doesnt want to ruin the relationship. LAUGH. ALOT. make sure its not annoying though. Try to send the message that your down to earth and low maitnence.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Apl1cwrWjO1D6NAcxeSR1pbsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090922185231AAJVwYb Please give me some advice! Im so confused it would be greatly appreciated...
Text him. Guys notice when girls text them. and listen to them. Let them talk about themselves...i know usually something u shouldnt do. but be interested and giving playful, flirty body bumps or pokes is always good
The easiest flirt is to smile at him. Cause staring and winking can be too obvious... You can also tease them and touch them 'accidentally'. If you two are really good with each other, you can say something suggestive like 'You know I like you' or 'OMG!! I love you!! Thank you!'
Flirting is easy. Pay attention to them, ask some questions about them, touch them a lot, like on the arm or just gently push them when they joke around, smile and laugh a lot, keep eye contact, try bring funny cause some guys think it's cute :).
go with the flow, and be true to yourself. dont be fake, no guy likes that unless he's just trying to get in your pants. but if you're real, and he likes you, then you know he really likes you for you, and that's the best thing you can have. :)
Just smile, be nice, talkative. Just don't talk too much or be annoying. ( big turn off for me )
Ask to hang out, ask if he has any plans for such and such date.
I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH!!!!!!
NEVER EVER EVER MENTION YOUR PREVIOUS BF's OR GF's.
You will ruin things forever.
Look him in the eyes a lot. When you do that smile a little sometimes then look away quickly. Go up to him and say hiiii whatever your name is. If you ever start talking then laugh a lot and playfully push his shoulder or something. Stuff like that.
Just smile and laugh at every joke they say, no matter how lame.
Be yourself obviously the guy likes you for you!, so dont change and be something your not. Also be nice.
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you touch his shoulder make eye contact laugh at everythign he says dont be an idiot and laugh at every single thing do and pay attention to key words to keep teh convo going like if hes say my dog did this and this be like ooh what kindof dog do you have or something
if you have any classes with him, sneak some peaks at him and if he catches you just smile back at him. do not do this too often, becuase then it will look weird, and the teacher might get mad =). Be nice and joke around. Be Yourself.
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