Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do guys flirt with a girl they like but are friends with?

How would you flirt if you were shy around girls but there was a girl you liked within a group of friends who you got on really well with and have known for about a year and has just started getting closer to? Keeping in mind you are quite a reserved guyHow do guys flirt with a girl they like but are friends with?
jsut do it like u would a girl u like who u arent friends with. see if she is receptive if she isnt then play it off as u was jsut jokingHow do guys flirt with a girl they like but are friends with?
im a girl and had know this boy since i was 6 yeres old.





at the time i was 13 when i started to fancy him...i started making lil hints that i liked him... but in the end we just stayed friends do...i wood just leeve it if i was u... u dont want to mess up a friendship....only make a move if u r completely sure she returns your feelings
OKAY if this is a guy asking the question, YOU don't just stare at her and wait till she comes and says HI... it's never ever going happen!!! It has happened to me a several times and I just dissed the guy cause he just kept starring at me. You have to talk to her. It's not that hard. It's simple. Go to her and start talking about school and music.
Usually my best advise is to tell a guy not to listen to advise on how to get women from a woman. Surprisingly I have to admit that the female answers I've read on here are actually pretty good though. Most of the time I hear super unrealistic answers from women like, ';just ask her out'; (like it's always that simple). For us men that have experience with women, we know that women are not always that simple. Also, often times what women think they want and what they actually want can and almost always are, very different. So, I would normally say don't listen to women, but I guess I should retract that since I was pleased with the suggestions they've given you so far.





My suggestion is baby steps. Sometimes you may need to take 1 step forward and 2 steps back. Be persistant but NOT pushy. Don't call her like crazy or make her feel that she doesn't have an out. Give her room to breathe. Think of her like a handful of slime. If you hold her too tightly she will slip through your fingers but if you don't hold her firmly enough, she will slide away. Women tend to like guys that keep them guessing but games in general have terrible side effects, so try to keep things as real as you can. Okay, tease her, but only enough to benefit both of you.. How do you tease.. well umm.. The best way to do that is to say something that can be taking two different ways. Uhh.. By not doing things exactly as she tells you too.. Every once in a while be busy or have plans when she calls. This kind of stuff drives women nuts. If you try to be a nice guy good luck. I feel for you. I have tried the nice approach all my life and i'm still single.





One final note is to be funny. Women like funny guys. It's a great way to make both of you feel more comfortable and as someone else already suggested, you can test her and pretend like it was just a joke if she doesn't seem interested. One warning about this approach is that when men joke like this, women usually know why. It's sometimes not a good idea to make a woman that sure of you. I know this because like an idiot, I always act like an opened book and they drift away.





Okay, my final final suggestion is to be yourself. You already must be doing something right. You have her attention. One baby step you can make is talk to her about a church you attend or a car show you go to regularly. Talk about anything that you like.. If she seems interested then say casually that if she ever wants to see that car show first hand that you would be happy to take her.. Mention there's one next week and that she is welcome to tag along.. This works great because now you can ask her for her number..:) (Women are smart enought to know that you are really asking her out and she will usually only say yes if she likes you or if she's a user). Good luck..
Lots of eye contact... will let her know you like her. Maybe then she will come onto you!
Well, before you put yourself out there, at least find out if she likes you. Then is she does like you, ask her out. You can flirt with her all you want, if its just you and her.
Just walk up to her and tell her you want her!
The first clue is if they like to talk closer to you than everyone else.
just tell her you like her it will either blossom or you will stay friends either way you dont lose

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