I always accidentally flirt with guys! How can i stop, when i do it without noticing?

I talk to guys and they think i am flirting with them, when i don't think i am. I lost a good friend because I accidentally lead him on and then had i break it to him, that i wasn't interested. I try not to flirt but I do it naturally, its like an instinct. I don't want to stop being funny though.I always accidentally flirt with guys! How can i stop, when i do it without noticing?
I have a husband and I am a natural flirter .. I also flirt with females and I am not a lesbian. Its all in fun. I like to laugh and joke around as well so keep doing you as long as it is harmless.I always accidentally flirt with guys! How can i stop, when i do it without noticing?
You're not flirting, it's just your personality. Nothing you can or should want to change. It's not your fault guys mistake your friendliness and light heartedness as flirting. Just make sure you're upfront with people about how you feel. I joke around with my best friend all the time, he tells me all the time he likes me and i tell him all the time I only see him as a friend. It works because we're honest about it. Yes it's hard on him sometimes to be ';just friends'; but he always says he'll take what he can get, so if friends is all we are then that's good enough for him. Moral of the story, you don't have to change, just be more vocal and upfront about your feelings. Don't ever assume guys know what you're thinking...they never do. Always spell it out for them
You dont have to stop being flirty to be funny. Just avoid touching them, dropping your gaze and smiling off to the side, and not focusing solely on them. If there is another person there, make sure the focus is divided equally This could also mean when they ask for your number make a point to not contact them, and if they contact you just say 'hello friend' to let them no thats what they are too you. Its just about sending the right signals consistently and knowing whats appropriate actions and gestures with friends and with potential boyfriend.





Hope this clears some air. Cheers
Don't stop with the jokes, it prolly makes up for your personality and you so don't wanna lose that. Instead, try to control the nice things you say. I mean, it's good to be nice, but being TOO nice either seems kiss-assy, or flirty, and that's what I think is leading all these poor guys on! Also, don't be so available. Act oblivious and don't notice so many things..eventually guys who flirt back will stop attempting, and guys who weren't in the first place will just move on with their life.


Good luck! %26lt;3


Help with mine? (:


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You are sending a message by how you act. Maybe you are not aware that you are following nature's programming. It's quite powerful you know.
You clearly just want their attention.





Another attention whore, another day.
Maybe its time you get a boyfriend
move on and get a new loyal long term boyfriend