Hard question, to answer. but i would say start the conversation, a nice smile always helps its all about your body language and if you have wit and charm it will come naturally once you are talking to each other.How do i flirt with guys if im super shy?
not even need to flirt. All you have to do is to pay attention in the conversation with the flirting guy. That will keep him interested. You may not like the subject that he brought up, but pay attention and ask questions about the subject like you are interested in what he's talking about.
Most people will like you if you are JUST showing your interest in people's conversation or whatever subjects they're talking about.
A smart guy must know that a girl is interested in him enough to be talking to him and asking a lot of questions about what he knows.
See. Now it's the art of flirting without flirting! :)
If you pay a lot of attention to the guy's conversation and he doesn't like you. You shouldn't consider ';flirting'; with him again.
LOL. I was the same exact way
But I've learned that guys like a girl with confidence, dont lower yourself down thinking that you have to be more, uh... I cant say the word but dont dress to expose your body too much because they'll just use you. Guys like a girl that is confident with herself and a girl that is able to dress nice just a little bit to make them imagine stuff but not enough to let them see it...
Just be yourself and try to be a little more outspoken, stand out, have a make-over and you'll truly feel more comfortable and confident :D
Just play off your shyness! I'm 18 and also very very shy myself, but secretly guys love shy girls, they are more mysterious and even cuter than someone who blabs all the time. What I do: Giggle whenever they say something funny, twirl your hair, just act cute. Try to keep up the conversation, compliment him on what he's wearing or something he did or said, ask him about his day and just try to be as much of yourself as much as you can. Good Luck! xx =)
Look them in the eyes and smile and just talk to them and ask them questions.
Ask them what type of food they like and what kind of movies they like.
Then maybe say something like I sure wish I had a cute guy like you to
take me to the movies.
Hope that helps some.
Just be confident. Guys are really shy to and love it when a girl let them know they like them.
Well, you have to just stick your neck out. Flirting is good for shy people as it's non-committal and a way of finding out if someone is interested in you.
You could flirt in a more subtle way, such as sitting next to a guy in class (if you're both going to school) or standing next to him.
be nice...
always be ready to help the guy...
this act will weaken him,,and soon,,will fall for you...it really works...
always be there for him....since you're shy,,,try texting...
it really works because you can edit (make sure,,some part of your answer isn't fully edited,,because being you is still important) before you send..
make him feel comfortable when he's around you...
this act may result to him touching your shoulder, etc..
good luck!!
and um...try to always be around the guy...
and practice acting like it was a coincidence that you two met...
stop yourself from shying away when the guy touches you,,,or at least do it unintentionally,,like creating an alibi....picking up an eraser or suddenly talking to another friend...this will enable you to squirm out of his touch without really hurting him....
Being shy is a GOOD thing. If a girl is too forward with me, it puts me off big time. If I can tell a girl is shy and she talks to me, it's very flattering. It doesn't matter what you say.
The most powerful flirting tool are your eyes. How you work the eye contact can do big things. You can get really far without even talking! It's all about the chemistry you create with your eye contact. Once you've got them interested with your eye contact and maybe a smile, talking to them will become a lot easier. Where do you think the old ';fluttering the eyelids'; thing came from? (Don't do that, by the way ;-))
if you feel awkward about flirting while a guy is flirting with you play with your hair a little, it relieves tension and it makes them think you like them.
when your talking to him dont seem over excited about the convo...act cool and collected and seem interested but not overly into the topic he picks
just talk to him only you do things kinda different, its hard to explain. you talk to him about things that he is interested in and you look at him maybe touch his arm play with your hair. things like that. and guys love confidence so if you can work on gaining confidence you will be golden, besides flirting kinda comes naturally
ok well dats common for a girl to b shy an if a boy is making u feel dat way u should avoid dem but i think dem are boys who wnt to hit it an quit it but u shoul take the chace an talk to a boi an get to now dem better an over come ur fears for being shy
Try to be yourself but let that person know that you are shy but come right out and say that you like them. If you're not into playing games, try the upfront approach. Guys are big stupid lugs, we appreciate a little insight.
i had the same problem..
go to wikihow.com
it tells you every thing
hope i helped.
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How is it looking desperate to flirt back? A warm smile never harms. And a Hi, how are you, is a good place to start.
Practice.
start with friendly hi's and smiles.
move on to conversations with eye contact.
conversations with light simple body contact.
act really friendly.
by then you should be able to flirt , if not , flirt back.
Its how I am to. Sept I have social anxity disorder which is way worse than being just shy. So I get wasted.
i would start conversation, then ask for a number and just start texting and go from there ;D
good luck
start talking to random people on the street and then after that you'll be less shy.
^^ Don't show cleavage, guys will just get the wrong idea. Say witty comments and be really touchy
Let your eyes and body language do all the talking. A guy will know.
Think happy thoughts
find something the two of you have in common and strike up a conversation around that
play a note passing game....
that way you have time to make up a witty remark....
GIVE HIM THE ';EYE';%26lt;3 IT ALWAYS WORK'S...HEHE
Just tell him how u feel.
SHOW SOME CLEAVAGE
Grab his cock and kiss him deep
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