I'm a very outgoing person and I am friendly to most people. It seems like my gilfriend and other friends who are girls get mad and jealous when I talk to other girls, when in fact im just trying to be nice. Occasionaly it does get misinterpreted the wrong way, and my gf has started fights b4, but thats how I got them to like me and now I'm not allowed?Do girls care when guys flirt with alot of girls?
There is a thing, where your nice and where your a little too nice. If you find the line between these 2 im sure you'll figure it out.
And plus you have to make compromises with the person your with. Honestly, if she was the same way you are than you'd be a little jealous too.Do girls care when guys flirt with alot of girls?
Uh, yeah. When you're with a girl you should stop flirting with other girls cuz then they'll think you're available when you're not.
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Oh dear - I see a lot of trouble ahead for you. Girls don't like it when you speak to other girls because girls always read things into things -- but I also wonder, are you trying to prove a point?
wellll its goood that yer friendly , but you dont need a lot of other girls liking you if you have a gf ; )
If girls notice you flirt with every girl you talk to, they will most likely label you in their mind as ';the guy who flirts with everyone';... and that is not a good thing. Especially if you have a girlfriend. You got her to like you so why are you trying to get other girls to like you at the same time you are already with a girl you wanted in the first place to like you?
If I was your girlfriend I would get jealous as well. What if she flirted with every guy to get them to like her? How would that make you feel? Think about it. And if your girlfriend getting jealous really irritates you or makes you unhappy, then don't be with her.
It sounds like you get into these problems because of HOW you deal with the other girls...what you and your girlfriend do....is not by any chance something you should do to other girls....not even a hug...or flirty talking...there is nothing wrong in helping a girl out but you should do it in a way that it cannot be interpreted incorrectly. If you are gonna talk to another girl...make it brief and it should not exceed the length of time you would spend with your girlfriend because she will get jealous...girls get jealous easily dude...Just be careful how you deal with other girls. Hope it helps
just keep being yourself. if you have a flirty personality and she doesn't like it then she doesn't like that part of your personality that you are attached too.
don't bother trying to please your gf. just break up with her and find a girl who likes you for you and accepts your flaws
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