They check me out all the time, don't get me wrong (: But when I look back at them or smile or w/e they just forget about it. No guy has ever come up and talked/flirted/whatever with me. Everyone says I'm gorgeous though. I don't get it. How should I act around guys? Please be SPECIFIC.Why don't guys flirt or talk to me??!?!?!??!?
if you are really attractive, then most guys would probably be shy around you and scared to say anything to you. YOU've gotta be flirty, and start the conversation if you want one to happen. Maybe you're just hanging out at the wrong places too.Why don't guys flirt or talk to me??!?!?!??!?
probably you are so nice and very rich.
just be you. im sure someone will hit on you
maybe they think your out of there league? or the ones who would talk to u have girlfriends already?
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do i flirt with guys?!?!?
im soo shy and i just want to give a some random guy a flirty look to make him come over to me
so how do you guys flirt with people??How do i flirt with guys?!?!?
just smile at them and when you talk to them laugh at their jokes and touch their arm, haha works like a charm. :)How do i flirt with guys?!?!?
By exposing your man-boobs.
so how do you guys flirt with people??How do i flirt with guys?!?!?
just smile at them and when you talk to them laugh at their jokes and touch their arm, haha works like a charm. :)How do i flirt with guys?!?!?
By exposing your man-boobs.
How do guys flirt with girls.?
What do guys do to show a girl he's interested in her, because guys are in general really confusingHow do guys flirt with girls.?
I just talk to them, most of my normal talking is flirting.. lol, It's hard to tell if the girl likes you though.How do guys flirt with girls.?
pick on u, look at u in the corner of his eyes
He generally gets a bit nervous. May be, he would find it difficult to make eye contact. His voice would become soft. You can know if a guy is about to flirt with u if he looks at you, but turns away when u retuena glance
i was a total geek i would look at her and when she looks at me i would look away. expecting her to know. i would figure out where she went between classes and hung out in the same places. just hoping she would make the move because i was to nervous. I'm glad i grown out of that phase.
I usually stare at her, but if she notices, i will look away real quick. also, if i mess around with a girl, such as pushin or shovin, i usually like the girl. this one girl said that she'd sit on me if i didn't stop pushin her with my foot...well...i didn't stop, so she sat on me. when she tried to get off, i said it don't bother me if she sits on me, so she stayed there...BTW...is that flirting by her if she stays sittin on me?
yeah i know, usually we try and have conversations with you and steer the subject to your personality. I am young and am flirting alot these days. Cant seem to figure out womens responses tho. I try and express my self as nice and impressed by the girl. I also try saying hi alot in the halls and walking with the girl and mostly talking. I cant figure out when u girls actually like us guys cuz u seem to stay passive. Havent even asked ne 1 out yet since every time i flirt with a girl i get mixed reactions. happy but mysterious... Well guys are pretty nervous when they are flirting, especially me cuz we are trying so hard to discretley tell you we are interested. Look for context clues, voice tone, eye contact and facial expressions. And make it easier for gods sake by opening up a lil! Hope this helps!grow hair pop up blocker
I just talk to them, most of my normal talking is flirting.. lol, It's hard to tell if the girl likes you though.How do guys flirt with girls.?
pick on u, look at u in the corner of his eyes
He generally gets a bit nervous. May be, he would find it difficult to make eye contact. His voice would become soft. You can know if a guy is about to flirt with u if he looks at you, but turns away when u retuena glance
i was a total geek i would look at her and when she looks at me i would look away. expecting her to know. i would figure out where she went between classes and hung out in the same places. just hoping she would make the move because i was to nervous. I'm glad i grown out of that phase.
I usually stare at her, but if she notices, i will look away real quick. also, if i mess around with a girl, such as pushin or shovin, i usually like the girl. this one girl said that she'd sit on me if i didn't stop pushin her with my foot...well...i didn't stop, so she sat on me. when she tried to get off, i said it don't bother me if she sits on me, so she stayed there...BTW...is that flirting by her if she stays sittin on me?
yeah i know, usually we try and have conversations with you and steer the subject to your personality. I am young and am flirting alot these days. Cant seem to figure out womens responses tho. I try and express my self as nice and impressed by the girl. I also try saying hi alot in the halls and walking with the girl and mostly talking. I cant figure out when u girls actually like us guys cuz u seem to stay passive. Havent even asked ne 1 out yet since every time i flirt with a girl i get mixed reactions. happy but mysterious... Well guys are pretty nervous when they are flirting, especially me cuz we are trying so hard to discretley tell you we are interested. Look for context clues, voice tone, eye contact and facial expressions. And make it easier for gods sake by opening up a lil! Hope this helps!
How do guys flirt with someone in another car!? like the car next to you?
lick the window.
mmmmHow do guys flirt with someone in another car!? like the car next to you?
This one time I was stopped at a red light and a guy pulled up next to me and smiled at me and my mom just laughs and goes ';She's only fifteen';How do guys flirt with someone in another car!? like the car next to you?
Thats soo easy
I do it all the time
I be like, hey shawwty how u doin u sexxaayy
lol
wink, lick your lips and honk your horn. then lick the air.
Hey girl, you want to see a real engine at work?
Haha they smile and wink. (:
i don't
that wouldn't make any sense
mmmmHow do guys flirt with someone in another car!? like the car next to you?
This one time I was stopped at a red light and a guy pulled up next to me and smiled at me and my mom just laughs and goes ';She's only fifteen';How do guys flirt with someone in another car!? like the car next to you?
Thats soo easy
I do it all the time
I be like, hey shawwty how u doin u sexxaayy
lol
wink, lick your lips and honk your horn. then lick the air.
Hey girl, you want to see a real engine at work?
Haha they smile and wink. (:
i don't
that wouldn't make any sense
How do i get guys to FLIRT with me first?
im mostly the one who starts flirting with a guy
and i dont want to start it
i want the guys to flirt with me first
but idk what to do that would make guys flirt with me first
HELPHow do i get guys to FLIRT with me first?
haha flirt without saying anything. be cute, play with your hair battt your eyes... you know. well at leaset thats what i do. lol
and i dont want to start it
i want the guys to flirt with me first
but idk what to do that would make guys flirt with me first
HELPHow do i get guys to FLIRT with me first?
haha flirt without saying anything. be cute, play with your hair battt your eyes... you know. well at leaset thats what i do. lol
Why do guys flirt with girls but don't ask them out?
i flirt with guys I like and they seem to flirt back -- but I can never get them to the next step (asking me out)! I will NOT ask a guy out
1. why do guys flirt with girls but then nothing comes of it (they don't ask me out?)
2. how can I get them to take the next step? I've already shown interest by flirting, isn't that enough of a clue...maybe I'm doing something wrong....Why do guys flirt with girls but don't ask them out?
Some guys will flirt even if they have no intention of asking you out. Like the other fellow said, they just see it as practice, and if that's the case then nothing you can do is really going to make much difference. My advice: take it as a compliment that he finds you interesting enough to flirt with, and move on.
For me, though, and probably for most guys, when I'm flirting with a girl, I am looking for some sign that she's interested in me, and if I don't get a clear signal or if I get a danger sign (like she checks her watch or backs away from me), I'm not going to pursue it any further. The trouble is, we men are not subtle creatures, and we can also be quite thick. Sometimes we need to be clubbed over the head before we notice what's right in front of us. You may actually *be* flirting with me, and think you're being obvious about it, but it's flying right over my head because for me it's too subtle to notice. Just smiling a lot and chatting with me isn't enough - that tells me you don't find me repulsive, but it doesn't make it clear that you're actually attracted to me. My lady friends smile and chat with me too. So what's obvious enough to get it through his thick skull that you're not just being friendly and want to be asked out? Grabbing him and snogging him senseless would certainly do the trick, but I'm not suggesting you have to go that far. I'd say make lots of eye contact, act interested in what he's saying (even if you're not), lean in, don't lean back, compliment him about something, touch him on the arm or the leg, ';accidentally'; brush his foot with yours. If I get that kind of attention from a girl (especially touching or compliments - those are like the ';holy grail'; signals) and I'm interested in her, I'm definitely asking her out.
If being more obvious with your flirting doesn't work then I don't know how much more you can do to get him moving, if you don't want to take the initiative yourself. One idea is to ask him about places he likes to go - could be a restaurant, a club, a favorite store, even a museum. If he mentions a place you like too, then tell him how much you enjoy going there, mentioning that it's ESPECIALLY fun going with other people, and see if he'll take the hint. If you don't have an exact same favorite place, but you have one that's very similar (say you both like Italian but frequent different restaurants), then you could hint to him that he might enjoy trying your place with you, or that you might enjoy trying his for a change.
Hope that helps!Why do guys flirt with girls but don't ask them out?
Guys probably just wanna have some fun and don't think it's serious.
I have the same problem....you're not alone. I have a feeling we're going to have to ask guys out if nothing happens. Good luck.
It is often because guys like to hone in on their macking skills. I know that my brother likes to flirt with other girls and not ask them out especially when he is already in a relationship. If he does this, the girl that he is with will be more willing to go further into giving into having sex with him to keep him. He wants to flaunt to his girl that he can have alternatives. Paradoxically, if a guy is needy, then, why would he want to go out with her? We might find this to be horrible, on one hand, but if a guy gets all soft and begs to go out with us ladies, would we really accept even though he is a nice person? What if he says, excuse me, I am needy emotionally, and I want to really cuddle. You may see him anything from a creep, to Let's Just Be Friends. On the other hand, a guy who is sort of firty will be seen as being ';Cool';. It may not be right, but can you girls do something about giving the softer guy a chance? I know I would let him finish last sadly.
1) i do it to keep my game as sharp as possible
2) be physical and maybe forceful in a type of way to get him to pursue. tease him a little.
Guys will always flirt with girls as the girls do with them. Perhaps they are not looking for a relationship or they do not find you girlfriend material. Lose the old school of thinking, if you like someone ask them out, there is nothing wrong with that these days.
we hate rejection, maybe girls should ask guys out sometimes.
I think they are practicing their skills. You might try playing hard to get with one of the guys who is flirting and see if he asks you out. But if you like a guy and he seems interested, there is nothing wrong with asking him out -- ';I am going to a movie that I hear is great -- want to go with me?'; Or something like that. If he says no, then at least you tried and you know where you stand. What's the worst that can happen? Being rejected won't kill you, and one of these times it will work. And he might be the one.
Maybe they are scared of getting rejected.
1. ew dont ask the guy out
2. the same reason you flirt with guys you would never go out with
3. its fun =]
4. you sound pretttyyy desprate
You're not doing anything wrong, they're r just scared. Try asking them out yourself
I bet that they aren't being as ';flirty'; as you think they are, and I also am willing to bet that they are shy, and you may need to take the next step!
Some ladies are unapproachable. Many guys think the same way as you do, they won't ask you out even if they're dying for you. Keep your game tight and go for what you want.
Solo ten calma y espera te a conocer alguien que te ame, siempre procura conocerlos ampliamente antes de ilusionarte. Recuerda que la primera cita, solo es para conocerse. Y si todo va bien se va mas adelante en las proximas.
It's all about the chase/,...
iT'S ALL ABOUT THE THRILL OF KNOWING HOW FAR THEY CAN GO BEFORE THE ROAD ENDS FROM THE CHASE THEY STARTED WITH YOU..
Perhaps you're not mature enough to date yet.....
u're doing nothing wrong...but i think the problem is with the people u like lol...
It's how you flirt with a guy and who starts it. If he is a friend then it's all about friendship. Depending on your age makes a differences. To get a person to ask you out after flirting with them you can not unless you are willing to go to bed with most boys. If he a friend then talk to him and let him know that you and others are going somewhere and ask him along. You both will get to know each other better on a friendly base and neither of you should feel off keel. If he like you he will ask you out.
same reason girls flirt with the guys then say no, I just want to be friends. They're either stupid or scared.
Maybe you are ..............
ok girl we flirt if we like a guy right? well im the flirting queen now let me think.... ur flirting but their not asking u out? whats wrong their is that ur not flirting enough ok? i love flirting and i have learned it takes more then flirting. kiss his cheek or u make the move. i do and it works everytime! they ask me out like that! and always say no. but make sure they like u enough to try it again! ok? i hope that helps!
lean to flrit back. read tips on flirting, dating and more to help you on this site
Maybe you shouldn't sho interest in them let them show it to you.
Its the same with girls flirting with guys they dont really like, its just sport if u ask me
1. why do guys flirt with girls but then nothing comes of it (they don't ask me out?)
2. how can I get them to take the next step? I've already shown interest by flirting, isn't that enough of a clue...maybe I'm doing something wrong....Why do guys flirt with girls but don't ask them out?
Some guys will flirt even if they have no intention of asking you out. Like the other fellow said, they just see it as practice, and if that's the case then nothing you can do is really going to make much difference. My advice: take it as a compliment that he finds you interesting enough to flirt with, and move on.
For me, though, and probably for most guys, when I'm flirting with a girl, I am looking for some sign that she's interested in me, and if I don't get a clear signal or if I get a danger sign (like she checks her watch or backs away from me), I'm not going to pursue it any further. The trouble is, we men are not subtle creatures, and we can also be quite thick. Sometimes we need to be clubbed over the head before we notice what's right in front of us. You may actually *be* flirting with me, and think you're being obvious about it, but it's flying right over my head because for me it's too subtle to notice. Just smiling a lot and chatting with me isn't enough - that tells me you don't find me repulsive, but it doesn't make it clear that you're actually attracted to me. My lady friends smile and chat with me too. So what's obvious enough to get it through his thick skull that you're not just being friendly and want to be asked out? Grabbing him and snogging him senseless would certainly do the trick, but I'm not suggesting you have to go that far. I'd say make lots of eye contact, act interested in what he's saying (even if you're not), lean in, don't lean back, compliment him about something, touch him on the arm or the leg, ';accidentally'; brush his foot with yours. If I get that kind of attention from a girl (especially touching or compliments - those are like the ';holy grail'; signals) and I'm interested in her, I'm definitely asking her out.
If being more obvious with your flirting doesn't work then I don't know how much more you can do to get him moving, if you don't want to take the initiative yourself. One idea is to ask him about places he likes to go - could be a restaurant, a club, a favorite store, even a museum. If he mentions a place you like too, then tell him how much you enjoy going there, mentioning that it's ESPECIALLY fun going with other people, and see if he'll take the hint. If you don't have an exact same favorite place, but you have one that's very similar (say you both like Italian but frequent different restaurants), then you could hint to him that he might enjoy trying your place with you, or that you might enjoy trying his for a change.
Hope that helps!Why do guys flirt with girls but don't ask them out?
Guys probably just wanna have some fun and don't think it's serious.
I have the same problem....you're not alone. I have a feeling we're going to have to ask guys out if nothing happens. Good luck.
It is often because guys like to hone in on their macking skills. I know that my brother likes to flirt with other girls and not ask them out especially when he is already in a relationship. If he does this, the girl that he is with will be more willing to go further into giving into having sex with him to keep him. He wants to flaunt to his girl that he can have alternatives. Paradoxically, if a guy is needy, then, why would he want to go out with her? We might find this to be horrible, on one hand, but if a guy gets all soft and begs to go out with us ladies, would we really accept even though he is a nice person? What if he says, excuse me, I am needy emotionally, and I want to really cuddle. You may see him anything from a creep, to Let's Just Be Friends. On the other hand, a guy who is sort of firty will be seen as being ';Cool';. It may not be right, but can you girls do something about giving the softer guy a chance? I know I would let him finish last sadly.
1) i do it to keep my game as sharp as possible
2) be physical and maybe forceful in a type of way to get him to pursue. tease him a little.
Guys will always flirt with girls as the girls do with them. Perhaps they are not looking for a relationship or they do not find you girlfriend material. Lose the old school of thinking, if you like someone ask them out, there is nothing wrong with that these days.
we hate rejection, maybe girls should ask guys out sometimes.
I think they are practicing their skills. You might try playing hard to get with one of the guys who is flirting and see if he asks you out. But if you like a guy and he seems interested, there is nothing wrong with asking him out -- ';I am going to a movie that I hear is great -- want to go with me?'; Or something like that. If he says no, then at least you tried and you know where you stand. What's the worst that can happen? Being rejected won't kill you, and one of these times it will work. And he might be the one.
Maybe they are scared of getting rejected.
1. ew dont ask the guy out
2. the same reason you flirt with guys you would never go out with
3. its fun =]
4. you sound pretttyyy desprate
You're not doing anything wrong, they're r just scared. Try asking them out yourself
I bet that they aren't being as ';flirty'; as you think they are, and I also am willing to bet that they are shy, and you may need to take the next step!
Some ladies are unapproachable. Many guys think the same way as you do, they won't ask you out even if they're dying for you. Keep your game tight and go for what you want.
Solo ten calma y espera te a conocer alguien que te ame, siempre procura conocerlos ampliamente antes de ilusionarte. Recuerda que la primera cita, solo es para conocerse. Y si todo va bien se va mas adelante en las proximas.
It's all about the chase/,...
iT'S ALL ABOUT THE THRILL OF KNOWING HOW FAR THEY CAN GO BEFORE THE ROAD ENDS FROM THE CHASE THEY STARTED WITH YOU..
Perhaps you're not mature enough to date yet.....
u're doing nothing wrong...but i think the problem is with the people u like lol...
It's how you flirt with a guy and who starts it. If he is a friend then it's all about friendship. Depending on your age makes a differences. To get a person to ask you out after flirting with them you can not unless you are willing to go to bed with most boys. If he a friend then talk to him and let him know that you and others are going somewhere and ask him along. You both will get to know each other better on a friendly base and neither of you should feel off keel. If he like you he will ask you out.
same reason girls flirt with the guys then say no, I just want to be friends. They're either stupid or scared.
Maybe you are ..............
ok girl we flirt if we like a guy right? well im the flirting queen now let me think.... ur flirting but their not asking u out? whats wrong their is that ur not flirting enough ok? i love flirting and i have learned it takes more then flirting. kiss his cheek or u make the move. i do and it works everytime! they ask me out like that! and always say no. but make sure they like u enough to try it again! ok? i hope that helps!
lean to flrit back. read tips on flirting, dating and more to help you on this site
Maybe you shouldn't sho interest in them let them show it to you.
Its the same with girls flirting with guys they dont really like, its just sport if u ask me
How do i talk to cute guys?
Alright my problem is that when i talk to guys that i think are cute i repeat everything they say like a freaking answearing machine, or i talk about somthing get nervouse cut it short and make it awkward. What do i talk to guys about? How do i talk to cute guys? Ive never even had a boyfreind... Ive had guys flirt with me but i screw it up. I can flirt with girls really easy but i get nervous around guys!How do i talk to cute guys?
Move your mouth around and make noises
But really, its harder sometimes because cute guys can be quite intimidating. Just go for it, that's how it is =)How do i talk to cute guys?
Practice until it becomes an ordinary thing. It's really the only way to get natural at it.
Everyone has flaws, so I just focus on my strengths. Having a good level of self awareness and what you're good at, what perspective you're coming from, etc, seems to help somewhat for making strong enough of impressions.
just be friendlygrow hair pop up blocker
Move your mouth around and make noises
But really, its harder sometimes because cute guys can be quite intimidating. Just go for it, that's how it is =)How do i talk to cute guys?
Practice until it becomes an ordinary thing. It's really the only way to get natural at it.
Everyone has flaws, so I just focus on my strengths. Having a good level of self awareness and what you're good at, what perspective you're coming from, etc, seems to help somewhat for making strong enough of impressions.
just be friendly
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